Saturday, May 23, 2026
Thursday, April 23, 2026
Why We Miss Deception — The Hidden Problem Part 1
Most people believe they can tell when someone is lying. They watch closely, listen carefully, and trust their instincts. There is a quiet confidence in that belief, the sense that, with enough attention, the truth will reveal itself.
And yet, in real life, deception is missed far more often than we realize.
The problem is not that people are not paying attention. The problem is how they are paying attention.
In most conversations, people tend to separate what they see
from what they hear. Some focus on body language—facial expressions, posture,
gestures—believing that behavior reveals the truth. Others focus on
speech—tone, pauses, choice of words—believing that language holds the answer.
Both approaches feel logical. Both seem sufficient. But both are incomplete.
Deception does not present itself in neat, isolated signals. It does not wait patiently to be analyzed. It appears in brief, overlapping moments. A hesitation in speech that coincides with a tightening of the face, a confident statement delivered with a subtle physical withdrawal, a detailed explanation paired with emotional inconsistency.
These signals do not occur one after another. They occur
together, often within seconds.
And that is precisely why they are missed.
Most people observe first and listen later, or listen first
and observe later. By the time they shift their attention, the moment where
meaning existed has already passed. What remains is only a partial impression,
one that feels complete, but is not.
So they walk away confident in their judgment.
"He looked honest." OR "She sounded convincing."
But rarely do they ask the most important question: "Did what
I saw match what I heard?"
That question is where real observation begins.
In Part 2, we will look at the biggest mistake people make when trying to detect deception.
Monday, December 8, 2025
Durian Tunggal: Malaysia’s Wake-Up Call for Real Police Training Reform
When poor training turns fatal, the nation pays the price.
The killing of three civilians in Durian Tunggal, Melaka—including a 21-year-old with no criminal record—has forced Malaysia to confront a painful truth: when police officers are inadequately trained, tragedy becomes inevitable.
Police
initially claimed there was an “attack” and "self-defense". Yet a 13-minute audio
recording—captured live by the wife of one of the victims—reveals a starkly
different story. The young men are heard fully complying with police commands.
One officer orders, “duduk,” and the suspect calmly replies, “Ya bang.” There
is no shouting, no fighting, no threat—only obedience. Moments later, gunshots
erupt.
Post-mortem
reports reportedly show bullet entry angles from above—consistent with the
victims being forced to squat or kneel. If true, this directly contradicts the
police narrative and points to a catastrophic collapse of professionalism,
judgment, truth, and discipline.
This was not
merely misconduct.
This was a
failure of training.
The Real
Problem: Training, Not Just Tactics
Proper policing
requires far more than knowing how to pull a trigger. It demands emotional
control, legal understanding, communication skills, and the ability to
de-escalate conflict with confidence and clarity.
When officers
lack these competencies, they become reactive, fearful, and prone to
unnecessary and brutal force. Good training builds confidence, honesty, and discipline.
Poor training breeds insecurity—and insecurity becomes brutality, and brutality leads to lying through the teeth.
As scripture teaches: “Man shall not live on bread alone, but by every word that strengthens and enlightens the mind.”
Similarly, officers cannot rely on weapons alone—they must be nourished by discipline, knowledge, and moral grounding to develop character and integrity.
Even Tamil cinema reflects this timeless truth. The legendary MGR famously sang: “Don’t sharpen your knife… sharpen your mind.”
A reminder that
true strength comes not from weapons, but from wisdom, clarity, and training.
Another classic Tamil lyric warns: “Don’t trust your eyes—they can deceive you. Trust all your senses, especially your trained mind.”
These teachings—whether from scriptures, song, or philosophy—carry one message: The mind must be disciplined and trained above all else.
Training The Mind: The Key to Preventing Tragedy
When police
officers lack proper training of the mind, they often fall into unwise and reactionary
behaviors. Training is not merely about procedures—it is about strengthening
the human mind.
Officers must
accept a simple truth: criminals will commit crimes. The role of law
enforcement is to prevent, interrupt, and bring justice through skill and knowledge, not
emotion.
A well-trained
police officer is a thinking officer. Regular training sharpens analytical abilities,
builds confidence, and nurtures professional pride. Such officers stay one step
ahead of criminals, using knowledge, observation, and strategy to outsmart
them. They succeed with integrity, fulfilling their duty honorably.
In contrast,
untrained or poorly trained officers feel overwhelmed and insecure, fueling the dictum that an idle mind is a devil's workshop. They grow
frustrated, lose motivation, and become emotionally unstable most of the time. Feeling
threatened and lacking mental discipline, they rely on shortcuts born from
fear, anger, impatience, and helplessness.
When these
emotions dominate, some begin to justify the unjustifiable: excessive and even
lethal force against suspects they find “irritating.” This is not justice, but
uncontrolled hatred, anxiety, and desperation leading to unholy justification.
What Malaysia Must Do Now
To prevent
another tragedy like Durian Tunggal, Malaysia must urgently overhaul police
training and culture. This means:
- Implementing regular full-spectrum police trainings that include de-escalation techniques, emotional intelligence, legal procedure, and communication mastery.
- Introducing continuous retraining programs rather than one-off seminars.
- Mandating body cameras and strict evidence-handling protocols to ensure transparency.
- Establishing independent oversight bodies to end internal cover-ups and protect the integrity of investigations.
- Holding officers fully accountable for violations of law and breaches of public trust.
Durian Tunggal
must not fade into yesterday’s news. It must become the turning point that
forces Malaysia to rebuild a police force worthy of public confidence.
Malaysians deserve officers who protect—not officers who kill out of fear, frustration, or inadequate training.
By Jackson Yogarajah
Deception Detection Expert • Former Special Branch Trainer • Author of A TO Z About Body Language • Founder of the OWLS Method of Detecting Deception.
Tuesday, November 11, 2025
Tuesday, October 14, 2025
CILT International Convention 2025 in Sri Lanka
What a great experience at the CILT International Convention 2025 in Sri Lanka!
It was great connecting with professionals from around the world, exchanging ideas, stories, and insights. I also had the chance to share the second edition of my book with some interested attendees, which made the event even more special.
Grateful for the meaningful conversations and new connections made. Looking forward to seeing where these collaborations lead!
Monday, August 18, 2025
New Release!
✨ New Release! ✨
Second Edition of A to Z About Body Language — now fully in colour!
Friday, August 8, 2025
Friday, August 1, 2025
Acknowledgment Letter from Amity International School Amsterdam
Honoured to receive this kind acknowledgment from Amity International School Amsterdam for my recent guest session with their senior students on Understanding Body Language and Communication.
It's always a privilege to engage with young minds—especially on skills that are essential not only in school, but in life, leadership, and the workplace.
Grateful for the opportunity and thoughtful hospitality.
#CommunicationSkills #BodyLanguage #LeadershipDevelopment #YouthEmpowerment #Gratitude
Saturday, July 12, 2025
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Wednesday, November 13, 2024
Unlocking Ancient Secrets: How Donald Trump’s Brain Synchronization Techniques Echo Egyptian Pharaohs in the Quest for Peak Performance.
My primary purpose in writing a chapter in my book, A To Z About Body Language, in 2021—well before Trump was elected as the 47th President of the United States—was to draw readers' attention to his body language. The chapter frames Trump's techniques within the mystique of ancient wisdom and suggests uncovering extraordinary insights into modern leadership and cognitive potential. It highlights a unique blend of history, psychology, and high performance, aiming to captivate those interested in both Trump and age-old practices for achieving mental clarity and success.
The article presents a fascinating connection between brain hemisphere synchronization and the unique qualities of individuals like Donald Trump, likening his use of brain synchronization to ancient practices, such as those attributed to Egyptian pharaoh Tutankhamun. Described as the "Donald Trump Gamma Brain Wave Technique," this method suggests that Trump's habitual hand gestures, particularly his use of "fingers steepling," synchronize his left (logic and detail-oriented) and right (emotion and holistic-thinking) brain hemispheres, fostering Gamma brain wave activity.
Gamma brain waves are the brain's highest frequency waves, often associated with intense focus, clarity, and rapid information processing. This synchronization is theorized to give Trump an edge in making confident, coherent decisions, engaging both rational and emotional elements. Trump's non-scripted speaking style and openness in communication are seen as manifestations of his complete engagement of the brain—operating beyond the 10% brain usage myth and tapping into full-brain potential.
The connection to ancient Egyptian practices, such as the crossed hands on Tutankhamun’s chest, illustrates how such gestures were used to induce mental clarity and alertness. Just as the Egyptians believed in maintaining harmony and balance, Trump’s gestures aim to balance logic and emotion, representing a modern continuation of this age-old wisdom.
In sum, Donald Trump's use of body language, especially his fingers steepling, is framed as a powerful Gamma wave technique—one that aligns with ancient practices while setting him apart as a leader who leverages physiological tools for peak mental performance. My article thus celebrates Trump's success as a testament to the effectiveness of whole-brain activity in achieving greatness.
Thursday, November 7, 2024
Poetry of Lies
Of Lies and Low Deception
In a land where power cloaks the shame,
The guilty rise with hollow claim.
Filthy falsehoods wear the crown,
While truth is twisted, turned down.
I’ve learned to read the face and voice,
To hear what hearts deny by choice.
Each lie they weave, I see it clear—
A tainted tale they dress as dear.
On screens they boast of virtue’s guise,
With hollow words and shallow lies.
But like the Taoist's timeless creed,
Their mouths may speak, yet hearts concede.
Their ignorance, a hollow shield,
In truth’s bright light is soon revealed.
An expert's eye, trained to see,
The depths of each duplicity.
So insulted, yet sharpened more,
Against their lies, I keep my score.
With wisdom honed by each deceit,
I watch their empires incomplete.
For in the end, deception fades,
And truth, though slow, will not degrade.
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